By Dana Saccomano, Breastfeeding Counselor Courtney Hayes is a Breastfeeding Counselor, wife, music lover, and stay-at-home mother of 3 boys. She lives in Gilbert, Arizona with her husband and three children - Jude (four years), Layne (two-and-a-half years), and Morrison (nine months). She is eager to share her exclusive pumping journey, which involved pumping for her medically-fragile first born. She went on to have two more breastfeeding journeys that did not include exclusive pumping. These experiences inspired her to become a Breastfeeding Counselor for Breastfeeding USA. When Courtney was pregnant with Jude, her 20 week ultrasound diagnosed a congenital heart defect. She and her husband made the decision to travel to Children's Hospital of Pennsylvania for the birth of their son, and the open heart surgery he would need after birth. Jude was born at 39.5 weeks. They stayed in Pennsylvania for a month after the birth. During her pregnancy, Courtney was hoping to breastfeed, but admits she did not know a lot about it. After Jude’s diagnosis, she started doing research and joining online support groups. She learned about the benefits of human milk and the possible detriments of formula for babies who have open heart surgery. This helped her solidify her decision to breastfeed. She hoped to breastfeed directly, but she learned that many babies with heart defects have challenges with eating. Her next best option would be exclusive pumping. She started researching pumps to be prepared for the possibility that she might not be able to latch her baby directly. She went into postpartum without any feeding expectations, other than the goal of giving her baby her milk, because she knew this was the best thing for him. During her pregnancy she met with a lactation consultant about breastfeeding. Her lactation consultant instilled in Courtney a passion for breastfeeding as she helped prepare her for breastfeeding and pumping. The information and tips she received from her lactation consultant helped start her down the right path. Courtney learned more about the benefits of human milk for her baby with a congenital heart defect, which solidified her goals and gave her confidence to provide human milk for him. Her birth plan included breastfeeding or pumping right away, as she knew that would be very important for establishing a strong milk supply. After Jude's birth she was able to hold him for 30 minutes. After that, he needed medical care so she pumped for the first time. The plan had been for Courtney to give birth at Children’s Hospital of Pennsylvania so she could stay there and be close to her baby during his open heart surgery, but circumstances changed and she gave birth at a different hospital. Jude was moved to Children’s Hospital soon after his birth. Courtney remembers feeling fearful about their separation and her baby’s stability. She also remembers one amazing nurse who helped her get set up to pump right away. Courtney pumped religiously, every three hours. Because of her strong prenatal breastfeeding education, she knew to keep pumping, whether milk was coming out or not. She knew the nipple stimulation would send her brain the signal to make milk. She and Jude had skin-to-skin contact whenever possible to encourage milk production. Courtney saved colostrum in tiny bottles so her baby could have his mouth swabbed with a milk-dipped q-tip to receive the benefits of human milk before he was able to eat. Jude had his open heart surgery at four days old. He was not allowed to breastfeed or take a bottle for those first four days because it would have been too taxing on his heart. He received nutrition through an IV during this time, in addition to mouth care with Courtney’s colostrum. A feeding tube was placed right after Jude's surgery ,through which he was able to receive Courtney’s milk. He tolerated the feeds well, which is not always the case with babies with congenital heart defects . They started to work on latching directly to the breast and bottle feeding, but discovered that Jude had additional complex feeding issues. They eventually found out he had a cleft soft palate, which made him unable to create suction to take a bottle. After Jude’s cleft palate diagnosis, Courtney knew breastfeeding him directly would be impossible. Instead, she vowed to pump for him and his fragile immune system. Pumping gave her a sense of control in a very out-of-control situation. Her husband was a big help in this endeavor. He was right there with her, helping clean pump parts. Courtney exclusively pumped for 15 ½ months for Jude. After she was done pumping, Jude continued to receive Courtney’s stored milk until he was 18 months old. She went on to have two successful breastfeeding journeys with her two subsequent children. In large part because of her experience pumping for a medically-fragile child, she hopes one day to become an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant to help families on their feeding journeys. She has a special place in her heart for families with medically fragile babies, as well as those who exclusively pump, as she feels those families need more support than they usually get. She is one of the moderators for Breastfeeding USA's newest Facebook support group, Breastfeeding USA: Exclusively Pumping Support. |